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这一篇我会用双语呈现给你们，目的是希望所有人可以阅读这一篇。可能会有点长，可是当你们耐心读完后，你们也许会多了解我一点，谢谢 =) Translator- Daniel Teoh. Thanks !
This post I would like to present all of you 2 languages, because I hope everyone can read this. It may a little bit long, but when you guys finish reading it patiently, you all may be know more about me, thanks !

家，几乎是每个人都会拥有的。它给人的概念往往都是幸福美满，快乐以及很安全的庇护所，最重要的是它提供你安全感和温暖。无论一个人再怎么刚强，都需要家人的慰问，需要家人的关心。当你不开心时，除了朋友之外，家人就是你最好的选择，最好的倾诉对象。
The basic unit of a society is a home, and it is possessed by almost all of us. Its concept is one of happiness and safety; most importantly it provides security and warmth. No man, however strong and powerful, would dismiss his family’s concerned enquiries… In unhappy moments, a healthy family is the best option, a place to pour out our soul and emotions.

在现今这个社会里，出现了种种的因素而忽略了家庭的重要性，造就和发生了许多可悲的问题。当一个小孩在不健全的环境下成长，他所得到的爱不足够，就会产生不同的变化，尤其是在心理方面得不到足够的安全感。现在的人类眼里只有金钱，也许他们深信只有金钱才能给予他们最大的安全感，除了金钱之外，所有的人一概不信。这个因素极大的可能性就是他们出生于贫穷家庭，或是缺乏家人的爱和关心所造成的。这是其中一个因素，出自于我个人的看法 = )
However, in modern societies, the importance of the family structure is being neglected, and this has caused many grave consequences. The primary victims are always the children, who grow up in a unhealthy environment, one which lacks love. This is bound to have much negative impact on the child, especially on his psychology. He may grow up into an insecure adult someday, who weighs all in monetary value and fails to see life in its rightful manner… He or she only believes in money. Chances are, these people came from broken family backgrounds, either in poverty or a dysfunctional family. This is, however, my personal view..

出生于家境贫穷或富有并不是我们可以选择的，我们所能做的是坦然面对现实。举个例子，当你出生于贫穷家庭或单亲家庭，你不可以埋怨自己或抱怨说为什么上帝对你这么不公平，为什么要你从小就面对种种数落，讥笑和讽刺。你必须知道，这一切一切，并不是你想要的。。
Fate decides our families, whether rich or poor. It is up to us to readily, or dejectedly meet reality. An example: one who comes from a single or poor family should not grumble , citing divine injustice, or complain about the challenges and scorns from others. What is important to bear in mind in this: it is not your fault, nor is it your desire.

其实我这个人很好聊，只是缺乏勇气和一点滴的信心，所以有时选择沉默及微笑。你们很多可以知道我可以与你们聊天下事，八卦事以及所有的杂事等等。但是，你们有没有意识到其实我很少谈起关于我自己或是我家人的事情？如果你们可以再细心点，你们也许会察觉到。坦白跟你们说吧，我就是那一个的小孩，出自于不健全的家庭，我是单亲的。我也只能跟你们说这么多，关于我家人的事的确是不想多说。然而现在这个社会，单亲家庭好像越来越流行了，原因是因为他们不懂得如何处理问题,也可能是吵架等等。当面对庞大兼困难的问题时，他们只能选择离婚来逃避。
I am actually a pretty talkative person, only lacking in a little courage and confidence. I usually prefer silence and to smile in a conversation. Many of your know that I can, if I want to, talk about a great deal of issues, be it formal or informal. Nevertheless, I ask if anyone has had noticed my reluctance to talk about myself or my family. An observant and sensitive person would have picked that up. I am the kid I talked about above: coming from an incomplete family. I shall, however, stop here: it is indeed a great difficulty and reluctance for me to talk about my family. It seems families like mine are the ‘in’ thing in modern society now… I would think the reason for this undesirable trend would be ignorance, not knowing how to handle their partners and themselves well, and when a big fight comes along, divorce settles the dust.

每个家庭都会发生很多问题，而我的家庭也是。但是家丑不可外扬，就不跟你们说是什么问题了，希望你们可以谅解。从小我就背负着单亲这个问题，尤其是每当我在学校填写表格时，我不知道我该填写什么。很庆幸的，我有一个美好的童年，所以我并没有很大的问题。当我越来越大时，所见识到的东西和该面对的问题也越来越复杂。我时时告诉自己，在这个时代，我必须要生存，为了生存，我必须不择手段(没有杀人放火那么严重啦><)。要生存，就必须要聪明。
A family has its own woes, no matter how perfect it may appear. It is an implied Chinese tradition, however, that one does not wash his family’s dirty linen in public. I ask for the reader’s understanding of my adherence to this custom. It is a problem I must carry since I was very young. It is always a pain whenever it comes to filling school forms: I would hesitate, or not know what to fill in the blanks. I thank God for my beautiful childhood though, and back then I did not face too many problems. In the process of maturing, I discover more and more complications attached to matters and people. A constant admonition to myself: I must survive; I have to. In order to do just that I must be wise and sometimes a little crude.

我家境不是很富裕，所以我必须在逆境中寻找出路，我需要自求多福。当你出生于一个环境富有或贫穷时，你就会被培养出不一样的性格。何解我会这样说？举个例子，一只时常在外过活的野猫，和一只在家里每次吃饱就睡的富猫。当它们两只同时放在野外时，哪只会主动去寻找食物？哪只会去寻找庇护所？答案是野猫。而那只富猫只能守株待兔等待食物的来临而活活饿死。我不像那些富有的人只要伸手就有钱（我没那个意识得罪那些有钱人,just example), 我要钱？只有自己想办法生钱。
My family is not an affluent one. It is up to me to find my own way out. If I want something, I must earn it myself. Basic observation tells me that a rich kid is not the same with a kid otherwise. An example is this: a wild and independent cat, and another who lives and sleeps happily in a home; put the two on their own, out in the world, and it seems clear who would be the active cat to search for shelter and food. I say it again: if I want something, I must earn it myself. Contrast with rick kids who merely have to ask and receive. No offence intended, though.

我现在有我自己的理想和目标，我会逐个去实现，我不会守株待兔。身为一个华人都该懂的是百行以孝为先，妈妈不要担心，我不会辜负，我会照顾你的。谢谢你多年来对我照顾有加，我爱你 = ) 蛟龙得云雨，终非池中物。当有机会时，我会大显身手好好干一番。
I now have my dreams and goals in life, which I shall achieve one by one. I’m not waiting for any durian runtuh, or sheer luck. It has always been a cardinal Chinese custom that a son should always fulfill his filial duty. I speak to my mother here: do not worry, I shall not disappoint. I thank you for the years of past where you have cared and fed me, and I love you =). The time shall come, my time shall come, and when it does, I shall grab the opportunity and give it my best shot.

好啦，写了那么多，你们应该也看到累了，哈哈！我该停笔了，谢谢你们那么耐心看完，谢谢~
I shall stop now, not wanting to tire my readers any further. Your patience is very much appreciated.

P/s- profusely thanks to Daniel Teoh again !

Destiny

We have our own destiny, it is in your hand, depending on how you confront it. Don't try to shun away it or flinch, if you do, means you are just like a inferior fugitive evades away from your country within disgrace and be irresponsible to the splendour of your exalted King. It could be very simple, and could be intensely complex. But what? it is ineluctable, it is your inexorable fate. Some of them may think that destiny is ambivalent, just like love, fascinating.

One of the tranquility night, something reminiscent vaguely in my mind, I felt grieve, anguish even weeping alone, but cannot disclose here (it is about my destiny : P). I am resent, no, should be jealous who is exceptional in among of people. I am thinking that how could them be so impressive, but why not me? We are human, but why our destiny could be totally different? I continue to mourn alone, and again. Occasionally, I will feel I am neglected by other, when I am alone, my soul is full of fatigue. As Eric said "Time is so merciless" , it has gone trickle. And again, I look at myself sceptically and ask "what's wrong with your destiny huh? ", but I think soon i will accustom for it.

I would place more attentions to myself, because i know I am bossy sometimes? haha o.O (I am just trying to make the ambiance more harmonious XD) vain conceit, cantankerous, arrogant and whatnot. I would change, refurbishing me to a new Wilber, wishing I be better than before, be a fantastic character, everything has gone supercalifragilisticexpialidocious, hankering this comprehensive overhaul would be succeed.

So, now I choose to confront my destiny, against all odds, how about you? Come on baby ! let's fight for our future, die now and resurrect to the new one ! Remember, smart is the crucial way to win = )

dream comes true !

我只能有“终于”来形容我现在的心情，
终于，我渴望的，盼望的，期望的那张执照终于来啦！
拖了3个月才去考 =.= 不然的话我现在是P了。
从上个星期5听完后就一直在等待今天的来临，
二话不说，今天放学后直接去领我的执照了！
那种兴奋的程度，实在是难以形容 XD

说到这里，那些早有执照的人肯定说：“cheh,L罢了吗，有什么好高兴的？”
其实，你们是否已经遗忘了当初当你们刚领到L时的那种兴奋感，那种成就感？
没错！而我现在正是处于这种巅峰时刻，也许过了不久，我会像你们这样吧？hehe
我的照片。。很抱歉是用回我6年纪的=.= 距离现在，不多不少已经过了4年！
哈哈，当然是因为我的脸还是一样啦，所以才选择用回。

现在，我有了这个


再加上这个


最后还有这个


我只能说，我可以飞了！I am flying without wings ~ but with my "wife" = )
如果有任何的活动记得叫我参与！！
还有的是，有一样东西我觉得很好笑，哈哈！！
跟你们分享分享= )

当我还没拿到执照时，都会想尽千方百计去避开那些警察，求神拜佛不要让我遇见他们，
即使被block了都会绞尽脑汁说一些感人肺腑的话，以便他们给我一个机会（可惜没有）
而且还送我3张SAMAN！！
现在我已经有执照了，我每天都期望我可以被他们拦截，真的！
可以的话即使没有被拦截，我也要停在他们面前！哈哈哈哈哈哈！！
刚才打完篮球，我跟佳毅两人去吃宵夜，
他也说很sien，到现在没有被block到半次，等下要不要去找警察？他们就在附近。
哈哈，我听了觉得不错，打算要跟去的，可惜我的mirror =.= 所以还是取消了念头~.~

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现在是写给某人的
拜托啦，你以为你自己是谁？很美？很可爱还是怎样？
我根本没有那样说到，而你却自以为是，随便乱编故事，
说到好像我们所有男生都为你疯狂这样，你这样做，
很遗憾的，并没有提高你的身价，反而被贬低价格，
还有please啊，我跟你只是纯碎朋友关系，为什么你要自作多情？
好像我nge nge要跟你在一起这样，拜托
我不像你这样，说一套做一套，恶心！
以后见面，不要跟我打招呼，我不认识你的，
还有可以散多远就多远，谢谢= )

最后，祝大家中秋节快乐！！记得赏月到四更哦，说不定你会看到龙船 = )

happy birthday to da jie !

明天9月5日就是我大姐生日啦！
身为弟弟的，在这有些话想对大姐说。
我很高兴啦，有你这个大姐，哈哈，
不像我二姐这样残暴！你很疼我啦。

我刚才穿的那件衣是你送我的，
我穿的鞋也是你送给我的，
我现在用的电脑也是你送我的，
我现在用的电话也是你给我的，
我每个月都会有RM50也是你给我的。


试问一下，有没有一首歌可以送给姐姐的？T^T
好像世上只有妈妈好之类的，有的话我想唱给你听，哈哈！
每次跟大姐和妈妈出门是最幸福的 ^^ 珍惜。。

为了庆祝大姐的生日，刚才去了Autocity。
去那间叫什么“久久香”吃晚餐。
哈哈，名字很吸引我，
久久香？真的吗？><
不过，还蛮好吃的= )

然后然后，拍了很多照片 XD 哈哈
这次也有带baby去 ^^

he's cute !

see her stupid face !! haha
da jie and jie fu = )


of course me ! ^^
and a lot of photos, later I will upload at Facebook.

After having our dinner, we ramble around at Autocity,
there are wrapped by many stalls, dispersing around the Autocity,
most of them bellowed for hoisting the customers.

My job wasn't just loaf about, but looking at girls : P
oh God, there are so many "leng lui" to look to !
I remember, had 2 girls walked behind me, and then I gave them a grinned, they gave me back an insuppressible giggle =.= what the fix? Am I too charming ? XD wahaha !
but frankly, I look pretty good occasionally XD do you agree? : P

After all, due to the baby, we were forced to forsake our leisurely rambling and fell back to home. Before leaving the Autocity, we went to the Secret Recipe to buy some delicious cakes ~ yummy ~ ^^



That's all. Da jie !! wish you happy birthday ! and all your dreams come true ^^

OldTown之旅～

再一次地，高渊摩托队（自己乱说的XD）出击啦！
续上次去完Pizza Hut之后，
感觉很不值，
所以再一次出发，玩透透！

今天下午1600时分，Chin Ee一个call来，
问我要不要去OldTown（那时我在看着YouPorn）哈哈，开玩笑
第一次，我拒绝了。
第二次，由我的gay友Ivan问我要不要去，
二话不说直接答应了，哈哈，没办法嘛，
我们是Gay的XD

然后又像上次一样，Chew Sin驾我的摩托=.=
真的很担心咯，他好像不pass不pass这样的，
我出事没关系啊，问题是我的第2老婆跟第3老婆受伤怎么办？！
哈哈，还好有我一直在监督着他 ^^

在半路时，突然有mood，拿起手机自拍XD


请原谅我，我太久没有自拍了 XD

那时我冒着生命危险在自拍 >< 要知道我摩托最低时速也有90KM/H，哈哈

看这个hiao的 XD

AllexZ和Gay友Ivan

WeiKang and ChinEe

SuanWei

还有video！！哈哈


就这样咯，过了不久（其实很久）便到达了，
然后Allexz说：“做么这次这样慢（speed）？”
哈哈，之前我们很快吗？XD

然后便开始点食物了，我跟Gay友Ivan点了情侣套餐=.=







Ice-cream ! yummy ~ i still remember the way you feed me eat ice-cream = )

吃到来都已经1800了，然后便去round round咯～
顺便去找章勤然后就回家了～
期待下次的行程 ^^

All merge in 1= )

前几天，当我到达学校时，
Allexz冲冲茫茫拿了一张form给我，
然后就继续去分给其他人了。
仔细看了看，
原来是一年一度盛大的槟城Marathon比赛！
心想：“siao eh，吃饱没事做去跑世界第6长的大桥？”
过后那些有去跑过的都跟我说这是个不错的经验，
可以尝试一下。
然后这几天被众人的诱惑，我终于爆发了！
下定决心今年一定要参加！
而且重点是。。第一次参加就打算跑21KM的 =.=
Am I crazy? 我疯了吗？我觉得是，哈哈
我每天旁晚都会独自一个人去跑步，为了要减肥=.=
只是绕我的Taman两圈，我已经快窒息了，
而且好像不到3KM，囧~
这次却。。21KM，无言。。。

这就是half marathon的路程，不管如何，
加紧练习啦！而且我正真的目的不是去那边傻傻的跑，
而是看女生 XD Allexz，kia！

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刚才洗澡好，突然有mood想自拍，
可是拍出来的，跟我真人完全不像（真人比较帅XD）
所以转移目标！我姐的baby，哈哈
看照片，他有多可爱= )可爱过我，不甘愿咯！







这张很可爱！我超喜欢！

还有video，听他的声音够了，不要听我的鸟声=.=


真羡慕小孩，每天都这样开心，
其实我也很开心= )

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最后一件事，那就是我二姐出水痘！！
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈！！恭喜你啦～
我应该是还没有出过，
所以，
Stay away from me, caution !
哈哈，我可不想出水痘><
还有我有一个问题，
为什么我们会出水痘？o.O
知道的话留个comment解答我的疑惑吧= )

我要跳舞！

跳舞，
给你第一印象是什么？
去那种暗暗的地方跳？
女生会被吃豆腐的？哈哈

对我来说，跳舞有分两种
第一，是正式比赛而且跳得很帅很有型的那种
第二，是在那种乌烟瘴气，暗暗的地方跳，可以认识女生的，然后里面的灯好像坏掉没钱修的那种，这种地方坦白说不ngam我>< 可能我没去过我不懂，哈哈

其实我很早以前就认识他了，
也许不是很多人认识他，
可是我只能说，
他跳的舞，
无人能比！世界上最厉害的舞员！
他就是Salah Benlemqawanssa，
为什么我会认识他？因为他叫Salah XD 容易记


他跳的舞总是出神入化，创意无限，
三不五时还能让你拿起拇指头说好！
然后在那边狂拍手！哈哈

这应该是他今年的最新比赛（他是穿红衣然后有带帽子的）
细心看完，到第4分钟多时更是精彩！


还有很多很多关于他的比赛videos，
要看的话你们可以自己去Youtube search = )
我可是他的粉丝之一，帅毙了！

不懂为何，
看完后有股想学跳舞的冲动XD
如果我可以跳得像他那么出色的话，
应该迷倒不少女生了，哈哈
所以要努力啦！
跳舞跳舞！